5/13/2012– “Beautiful in God’s Eyes” by Senior Pastor David Wing – (http://doverfoursquare.org/5/sermons.html)
There is no more influential or powerful role on earth than a mother’s. Their words bless, their touch leaves a lasting impression. The memory of their presence can last a lifetime.
Mother’s Day is a great day of love and honor; but, it can also be a day of pain. Those who are unable to have children, those who have been wounded by a mother, and those who feel they have failed in the calling of being a mother. The thing that brings many of us joy may be like salt in an open sore to others.
It is in those tender, raw places we can lose our way and our trust. We need to remember:
Trust isn’t a destination. Trust is a pathway to something greater. May your trust lead you to Father God!
Listen to God’s promises:
- The beauty of the Lord is so strong and it can be vibrant in you. His anointing and approval on your life is available to you.
- The fragrance of God through your years of crushing and pain can smell wonderful. The fullness of His character in your character is possible and He desires it for you.
- Difficult times can be overcome by your confidence in God’s love for you.
- The Lord is preparing a table for you, a table of newness in your life. The Lord will give you new songs and new clothing is being made for you. You can have a new heart and new eyes. You can grow in God’s grace and be moved by His holiness.
- The Lord will guard your heart. The Lord is saying: “Come, My child, I want to give you new roses without thorns. I will provide the comfort and peace you need. Meditate on My Words constantly, for out of the richness of My Word in you, there shall flow waters of life into your children and unto others.
- Watch out for distractions that may come your way. For the enemy wants to steal the beauty of your life. Remain transparent and simple before Me, for the Lord is with those who call upon Him.
- The Lord says: “I have brought you to the still waters. Come and drink! Be satisfied in Me and enjoy the peace I have for you.
- The Lord says: “I will guard your heart. I will bring women into your life to encourage you. For that is my plan in the Body of Christ.
- You can have a ministry that will bloom in the lives of your children and in others. Let me rejuvenate you so you can be strong to do what the Lord has planned for your life.
The Scriptures say:
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:4-6 (NASB)
Mothers, this morning I want to tell you to PUT GUILT IN ITS PLACE! I’m convinced that guilt is the human response of trying to find a logical, explainable answer for our tragedies and our mistakes. Yet, if we dwell in guilt, the ramifications of unresolved guilt are profound, resulting in shaken assurance, crippled confidence, and fragile faith, as we begin to wonder how God could ever forgive us of our mistakes, or how He fits into our harsh realities.
God has a remedy for all these symptoms that produce guilt. He calls us to CONFRONT guilt, i.e., to put it in its place. He doesn’t require this for the purpose of reopening the wounds of our lives, but rather, for the purpose of allowing us to deal with any condemnation or doubt we may feel so that we might find freedom from it. Rest your guilt on God’s grace. Mothers, we’ve all made mistakes, but we serve a God who forgives. Let guilt do its job, bringing you to repentance… BUT then allow full cleansing and full forgiveness to follow. Find healing in the grace of God in Jesus Christ.
“I have blotted out like a thick cloud your transgressions, and like a cloud, your sins. Return to Me, for I have redeemed you. Sing, O heavens, for the Lord has done it” (Isaiah 44:22-23 NKJV).
We are not made to carry guilt. So, we confess our sins and know they have been resolved in the Blood of Jesus, and then we begin to sing, praising God thankfully, rather than trying to reason everything out.
Mothers, one of the greatest gifts you can provide for your family, is allowing the Holy Spirit to loosen any chain that seems to bind you to feelings of guilt. Rest your case, for all the mistakes in the past on the presence of God’s Living Word and the Blood of Jesus Christ.
You are beautiful in God’s eyes. In Proverbs we’re told that a mother’s price is much higher than jewels:
“Your price is higher than jewels” (Proverbs 31:10).
One translator says: “Her worth is far above rubies.” The rich red ruby is a unique gem. These rare and large rubies even surpass diamonds of equal weight in value.
Another translation says: “Her value is far beyond pearls.” Consider this: only 20 are found out of 35,000 oysters – and only three of those are gem quality!
Still another translation says: “Her value is far beyond corals.” Corals are delicate flower-animals and only a few are quality enough to be polished and regarded as precious stones.
Rubies, pearls, and corals… Take your pick. Each of these is quite rare and valuable. Each is hard to harvest and hard to find. That’s the imagery we get in God’s Word. Women who serve God are beautiful and are of inestimable value. Just as gems increase in value as time passes…you, who are God’s beautiful women and His “jewels” will, too.
Manage your time wisely, whether married or single mothers. Time is the most precious commodity God gives to us. So redeem it well. Find your strength in the Lord. The Word says: “We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us” (Phil 4:13).
Speak wisely. Be led of the Spirit. God has given each one of you an invitation to beauty. Oftentimes you must pay the price if you are to become priceless. Our Master Craftsman made you. He is holding your heart in His hands. Let Him do His purifying work in and through you.
Let’s talk for a moment about your clothing. God has for you a wardrobe of virtues:
“Strength and honor are her clothing. She shall rejoice in time to come” (Prov 31:25 NKJV).
The woman who is beautiful in God’s eyes dresses herself daily with strength and honor. Clothed in these virtues she will rejoice in time to come. She smiles at the future, whether to a new day, or to her home going to be with the Lord. She trusts God for the eternal. She is joyful. She can laugh. God’s beautiful women face the future with joy for a lifetime. One author says:
“When a joyful woman laughs, it puts the lines on her face in the right places.”
Mothers and women of the Church, we bless you today. We ask you to give your life afresh to God and proceed full-faith ahead into each beautiful day that he has planned for you. Wholeheartedly pour out your love into each beautiful day that He has planned for you. Wholeheartedly pour out your love and care for your family and your church family and the people God brings into your life.
Reach out and encourage others in Christ. Make the commitment to wake up each day of your life and repeat that pattern for beauty. You are dressed in strength and honor.
Whatever your age, you can look down the corridor of time toward your future and rejoice!